So, you’ve stepped into college—congrats! You no longer have to raise your hand to use the washroom, and attendance isn’t the only thing that matters (though, let’s be real, it still does!). But here’s one college hack that most students ignore: building good relations with your professors.
Now, before you roll your eyes and think, “I don’t want to be that student who brings extra apples for the teacher,” don’t worry. You don’t have to be a teacher’s pet—just a student who knows how to network smartly. A good rapport with your professors can help you with recommendation letters, internships, research opportunities, and even career advice.
Here’s how you can do it without looking like you’re sucking up:
- Actually Attend Their Classes (Shocking, Right?)
This one’s a no-brainer, but so many students fail at it. Professors notice who shows up regularly. You don’t have to sit in the front row nodding aggressively—just be present, pay attention, and avoid scrolling Instagram under the desk.
📌 Pro tip: If attendance is taken, make sure you’re not just a name on the list but also a face they recognize.
- Ask Smart Questions (Not Just for the Sake of It)
Professors love students who show curiosity—but there’s a fine line between being engaged and being “that guy” who asks questions just to impress.
- Good question: “Professor, how does this concept apply in real-world scenarios?”
- Bad question: “Do you think Newton would have discovered gravity if he sat under a coconut tree instead of an apple tree?”
If you’re genuinely interested, ask questions that add value to the discussion.
- Visit Office Hours (Without Being a Creepy Stalker)
Most professors have office hours where students can drop in and ask for clarification. Use them! You’ll get one-on-one time to discuss doubts, talk about projects, or even get career advice.
📌 Golden Rule: Don’t visit just before the exam with 50 doubts—start early, show consistent interest, and build a rapport over time.
- Participate in Class (But Don’t Overdo It)
Answer questions, share your views, and engage in discussions. Just don’t dominate every conversation like you’re in a reality show audition. Balance is key—professors appreciate participation, but they also like students who let others speak too.
- Take Assignments Seriously (Even If You Procrastinate a Bit)
Professors respect students who put effort into their work. Submitting a half-baked assignment copied from the internet won’t impress anyone.
- Try to write in your own words (AI can’t save you forever!).
- If you need an extension, ask politely and with a valid reason (not “I was binge-watching a web series”).
- Connect Outside the Classroom (Not on Tinder, Obviously)
If your professor is involved in research, workshops, or industry projects, try to be a part of them. This gives you extra learning and a stronger professional connection. Bonus: It looks great on your resume!
- Follow Up After Exams (But Not in a Desperate Way)
Once exams are done, don’t just disappear. A simple “Thank you for the great semester” email can make you stand out. If you need guidance later for internships or recommendations, it won’t feel awkward because you’ve maintained a good relationship.
- Show Basic Respect (This One’s Easy)
- Address them properly (“Sir/Ma’am” or whatever is appropriate in your college culture).
- Don’t argue for extra marks unless you have a solid reason.
- Avoid being the student who whispers and giggles in class (yes, they notice!).
Final Thoughts: Be Genuine, Not a Sycophant
Professors are people too—they appreciate genuine interest and respect, not flattery. The goal is to build a relationship where they see you as a promising student, not a clingy overachiever.
By following these tips, you’ll have professors who remember you for the right reasons—and maybe even help you land your dream job or internship someday. So go ahead, be smart, be respectful, and build those academic connections like a pro!